In American culture, we tend to introduce ourselves using first name only. We may have worked with some co-workers for years without knowing their last names. Officemates across departments may not know someone’s last name until the retirement party unless you are in HR, Payroll or you email them frequently. In the Chinese context, the opposite is true, as last names are exchanged and presented far more frequently than first names. Chinese relationships can go on for years without first names. Chinese last names are easier to remember because a good dozen cover about 80% of the Chinese population. Last names also keep the Chinese social interactions in a comfortable, respectful distance. That may be why when you introduce yourself as Mike, they add a title, like Mr. to Mike, to fit the perameters of Chinese culture.
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